I am sorry you feel that way, but these forums are for people with concerns regarding Breast Cancer.
I understand that you have had a lot of worries regarding you Mother, and that these forums have been useful and supportive to you during that time.
It is not about anyone not believing you Jules, you are just constantly posting on here with continuing worries that are not concerned with breast cancer. I resent that you took my comments as 'nasty' as you are unable to appreciate that to someone who has experienced these problems for real, it is actually quite upsetting to read about your continuing obsession with suspected cancers. You obviously do need support and help, but you are posting on an inappropriate site.
don't get so stressed. I dont think anyone doubts that you actually go to the doctor with the problems so sending a scan of your mole is not really necessary. I do think you need lots of support but the ladies on here probably are unable to give you the kind of care and guidance you need and you just end up being more upset.
The comment I made about going abroad and being a risk was merely about the melanomas. Malignant melanomas are frequently associated with over exposure to the sun itself and sun beds etc, and I know you like your travel, that was all I meant. I hope your comment about sarcasm wasn't aimed at me. I was genuinely concerned that you've had a few scares over the last few months that's all. Maybe the written word doesn't always convey very well, but I obviously wish you well.
I don't think Moonshine means to be "nasty". However, Moonshine has been through the loss of a much loved husband, and is having to cope with her breast cancer on her own, and cope with a family, never an easy task as you know.
Try not to see the bad side in everyone. People do generally mean well.
This section of the forum is for families and friends to seek support and advice about breast cancer, and shouldn't be used for anything else. I think anwen is spot on when she says " I do think you need lots of support but the ladies on here probably are unable to give you the kind of care and guidance you need and you just end up being more upset."
I wasnt actually asking for support I have alot of friends on facebook who do that. I also think that the comments about how they dont like reading my posts are a laugh considering these are the same women who wrote on chrissies disgusting thread, and told everyone who felt offended by the vulgarness of the thread not to read if it they dont like it, but they dont think I should post either. This is down to one thing, and that is these are friends of chrissie who I dared to complain about! If you dont like what I write ladies, why do you read it, surely follow your own advice.
So it was ok for them to write racist and swear and offend half the forum with there crassness, but these same women are complaining at me for saying what kinda of time I am having. I wasnt asking for support. Its a farce really!